Last week me and Eun-mi took a trip to Seoul after having prepared all our paper work (including translating documents), and we both managed to take the day off - no small feat.
So we popped into the british embassy, handed in our documents, signed some forms, and said an oath and received a piece of paper that said we were legally allowed to get married in Korea. The best thing about this moment, other than relief, was that just as we stepped outside it suddenly began snowing: The first snow of the winter.
We then tried to get married at the nearest district office, but there were a couple of complications, the funniest being when Eun-mi realised she had brought her own stamp to sign as a witness rather than her sisters - the names are quite similar so it's an easy mistake to make: Hong Eun-mi 홍은미 / Hong Eun-hee 홍은희
So she attempted to stamp the paper with the last character being faded enough to look convincing (Hong Eun-???) But tragically she managed to do the complete opposite: (??? Eun-
mi)
Anyway, it turned out that wasn't a big problem because we got a stranger to stamp the paper for us ( i'm not we're allowed to do that in the UK).
But then after all the hassle it turned out that we would have to come back to that district office in 2 weeks time. Which is basically an impossibility for us. So they told us to just do it in Busan
So after that we just took a half hour walk in the snow and then took the 5hr bus ride home.
And now, after having returned to Busan and been to the district office I can happily disclose that me an Eun-mi are legally bonded!
But that's just a happy technicality, we will truly be united when we publicly declare our commitment in front of our friends, family, and God.